Quantity or Quality…
Been talking to a few different people over the last few days about friends, and friendship groups. I used to be someone who had a lot of friends that I caught up with on a regular basis. I loved it but it also took a lot of time and work and even though it was mostly very pleasant, it’s not sustainable on a long-term basis. Over the last 8 years a LOT has changed in my life and in my circles… they changed completely actually… Learnt some long painful lessons but these were very valuable. You see I was under the delusion that people care more than they actually do… I know it’s not always the case but its the truth. And it takes something painful to realise and acknowledge that this is a fact. I was involved with a large group of people and I always loved connection, encouraging…
