Preparing for the best…

Preparing for the best… There really ain’t no harm in preparing for the best…  Yes I know that the worst can happen, it is possible, but its not always probable, its potential but not necessarily consequential! I am ‘happy the eternal optimist’, but I am also a realist. I am not taken to wishful dreaming but I do like to believe the best. The last thing I do in most situations is believe that the worst case scenario is likely to happen and even though it could happen I live my life happy and peaceful most of the time because the worst case scenario rarely eventuates and I don’t expect it to. It really is a more pleasant way to live, I am sure the benefits in every way outweigh the negatives. When I listen to conversations that always head down the road of ‘worst case’ scenario I feel frustrated. I don’t…

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Happy the eternal optimist…

~Happy the eternal optimist~ Whatever things are noble pure good think on these things. Are you optimistic or pessimistic? I will be forever the eternal optimist. Optimism serves me very well and I wouldn’t be any other way, however it does leave a door open in my life for hurts and disappointments. Somehow this thought has just come to me right now. However, I wouldn’t be any other way than optimistic. I think that people become pessimistic because of the things that they have been through in their lives, the hurts and disappointments and then a self-protection mechanism kind of kicks in and it becomes the automatic. Amazingly, after all the many things I’ve been through in my life this self protective mechanism has still not been switched on, at least not fully… As a result my brain automatically thinks and expects the best and at worst I learn to…

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